Dear Carter,

You are four months old now and you are a very good baby. You are strong, healthy, and smiling. Our lives are that much more special because you became part of it. I don't know why I was nervous for you to come? Because once we welcomed you on August 7th, I knew that everything was going to be just fine. And it is. We are, all four of us, trying to figure out how this Finley family works well together. It's been a bit bumpy...but we are getting there. I hope that you feel safe, secure, and loved here. I hope your first year is as good as Kit's. Both of you are so lucky to have many people in our families who genuinely love you. There is nothing better than growing up around people who will always encourage you, laugh with you, and love you. I know that because you will build strong connections with family and friends, you will be happy and feel confident in the fact that you have a special place in the hearts of many. Right now, when sometimes it feels like the world's future doesn't seem the brightest....I hope, at the very least, you will be grateful for your family and return that love into the world. Remember, you are my favorite son and you always will be.
*Mom